For any parent, it’s a nightmare to think that your child is being bullied at school. Maybe you find out from a friend; maybe from a teacher; if you’re very lucky, your child will tell you directly. But then what?
Did you know that 25% of public schools report that bullying among kids occurs on a daily or weekly basis?
You can do your part at home, too. Here are five smart strategies to keep kids from becoming targets — and stop bullying that has already started:
Talk about it
Talk about bullying with your kids and have other family members share their experiences. If one of your kids opens up about being bullied, praise him or her for being brave enough to discuss it and offer unconditional support. Consult with the school to learn its policies and find out how staff and teachers can address the situation.
Remove the bait
If it’s lunch money or gadgets that the school bully is after, you can help neutralize the situation by encouraging your child to pack a lunch or go to school gadget-free.
Buddy up for safety
Two or more friends standing at their lockers are less likely to be picked on than a child who is all alone. Remind your child to use the buddy system when on the school bus, in the bathroom, or wherever bullies may lurk.
Keep calm and carry on
If a bully strikes, a kid’s best defense may be to remain calm, ignore hurtful remarks, tell the bully to stop, and simply walk away. Bullies thrive on hurting others. A child who isn’t easily ruffled has a better chance of staying off a bully’s radar.
Don’t try to fight the battle yourself
Sometimes talking to a bully’s parents can be constructive, but it’s generally best to do so in a setting where a school official, such as a counselor, can mediate.
Courtesy: Kids Health